1) Make an effort to wear a skirt or a dress instead of
     pants!

2) Don't ask if the guy was married before. Don't ask
     why he got divorced. Don't probe and ask how 
     many kids he has. The guy might think you are
     sizing him up for his bank account after he has paid
     alimony and child support!

3) If a guy asks you to dance and you are not
     interested in him, still say yes! It is only one short
     dance and you will boost his confidence. No one
     likes to get rejected! He might even turn out to be
     a great guy!